The first was with a kindergartener who I know in passing from seeing him around the school. I noticed he was sitting on the blacktop, alone, on this beautiful sunny day with a flurry of action around him. I walked over to where he was and asked if he was alright and got an "I'm okay" from him. I asked him if he would mind if I joined him as he soaked up the beautiful sunshine. After getting no rejection I plopped myself down on the pavement next to him. I asked him questions about his day, his teachers and other small things to try and draw him out. He responded, but was still shy. Suddenly, he asked me if I had seen the movie Monsters U. I, being a huge fan of kid/animated movies, had of course seen and loved the movie. So we talked animatedly about our favorite characters and the parts we thought were funniest or interesting. During the conversation he sat up straighter and became more and more animated and open. After a brief conversation, maybe about 10 minutes, he decided that maybe it was a spectacular afternoon after all and after saying his goodbyes got up to go play with some friends from his class that were on the playground nearby. This small interaction came as an inspiration to me after having a conversation with colleagues recently about "kid watching" in social situations and when to step in and how. I took a chance and played it cool, but I think what I learned from it was that sometimes kids may need some space, but sometimes they also just need a kickstart to boost their confidence, someone to just sit down next to them and strike up a conversation and listen to what they have to say in order to brighten their day.
So my advice? Go forth and take your kids outside the classroom when the weather permits it, you and the students alike may learn something new and feel an extra bounce in your step because of it!
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